No More Sexism-Colored Glasses?

31 01 2013

The United States Military has finally lifted its ban on women armed service members serving in combat.  Women have long participated in military and war, and have increasingly been allowed to participate in all spheres and roles.  However, the ban preventing women from serving in combat remained the last
official barrier to their full inclusion in military activity.

In many ways, this move is overdue, considering the number of women service members already serving in combat.  The notion of a contained combat zone reflects war practices of yesteryear; so, beyond excluding women from war all together, there remains little possibility of protecting them from direct combat.  The longstanding reasons for prohibiting women from participating in the military — and then, once included, arguments against allowing women into specific spheres and jobs in the military — also reflect outdated views about women, sex and gender, the body, and sexuality.

Not Discrimination, Just Practical!

It is now (somewhat) unpopular to openly espouse some of the most hostile sexism of the past.  Rather, like in the case of the lingering combat ban, opponents have pointed to practical matters:

Over the years, people have made silly cases against women in combat, but the prevailing argument seems to have been that women have less upper body strength than men — and so would have trouble carrying heavy rucksacks over long distances or wounded soldiers out of harm’s way.

As a soldier, if you’re injured and cannot move, do you want a 6’1″ 220lb. muscular man to carry you to safety, or a scrawny 5’2″ woman to slowly drag you out of danger (likely leading both of you to your deaths)?  When framed that way, it makes it more difficult to refute such concerns.  The problem inherent in this opposition is it underestimates the strength of all women (and/or overestimates the strength of all men) and exaggerates the differences between women and men by erasing the diversity among women and among men.  If we are actually concerned about the 5’2″ marine’s strength, why exclude 6’1″ muscular women from combat while including short, petite men?

Body shape and size aside, there is a good chance any fellow soldier will be able to carry you to safety.  Even beyond equality between women and men in strength, some things make me think women are actually stronger and tolerate a lot more pain in life than men.

But, some view the world through sexism-colored glasses, taking a perspective that places differences between men and women at the center, with beliefs about women’s inferior status, strength, intellect, and talent used as justification.  The problem, though, is that sexism also affords men the power to force this view, now matter how inaccurate; the reality according to sexism retains the status of Truth while everything else is an opinion.

Women Were Already In Combat

As I noted above, the lift of this formal policy prohibiting women from battle comes after women were already involved in war and combat. But, sexism-colored glasses blind us to the multiple wars that exist.  War is not merely a series of battles between nations (run by men) that officially declare war, drawing on armed militaries, and ultimately reach some peace settlement.  Throughout history, everyday, and everywhere, there are ongoing wars against women: sexism, patriarchy, misogyny, intimate partner violence, femicide, sexual violence, sexual harassment, sexual objectification, reproductive control, and so on.

War on Women

The Battle (For Equality) Is Not Over

Lifting the ban on women serving in combat is, indeed, a major victory for gender equality in the military.  But, the institution, like every other, remains anything but equal.  Though there are few remaining policies that explicitly discriminate against women, women in the military remain targets of discrimination, harassment, and sexual violence.  Among women service members who file charges when sexually assaulted or harassed, many are silenced, dismissed, or even falsely diagnosed with mental illness and discharged from the military.  Further, women and children of other nations are often unnecessarily or unfairly attacked, harassed, and sexually assaulted by US troops.

On a related note, we are still celebrating the recent repeal of the US Military’s “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy, which prohibited openly lesbian, gay, and bisexual (LGB) people from military service.  However, transgender and gender non-conforming people are remain excluded from service.  And, although LGB individuals are officially included, the military is slow to recognize same-gender relationships and marriages, and to afford military benefits to same-gender partners.  By no means is the US military free of sexism, homophobia, transphobia, and racism.  But, there has been some (slow) progress toward equality.





[kinsey] Chaz Bono Visits Indiana University (and the Kinsey Institute!)

8 10 2012

Chaz Bono visits Indiana University.

This was originally posted at Kinsey Confidential.

Over five years ago, I made my way to Indiana University for graduate school, largely because I knew about the Kinsey Institute and the strong community of sexuality scholars and advocates.  And, each year, those same things, including IU Sexploration Week, bring some of the nation’s biggest names in activism and research on sexuality from Dan Savage to Jessica Valenti.

This year, Chaz Bono – LGBT activist, author, and former Dancing With The Stars contestantvisited IU, the Kinsey Institute, and gave a talk on his life as a transgender man.  His visit was a part of both IU’s fifth annual Sexploration Week and the IU Themester on “Good Behavior, Bad Behavior: From Molecules to Morality.”

Chaz’s talk about his life, including the criticism (including death threats!) he has faced upon becoming the most famous transgender person in the US today, and his highly-publicized struggles with drug abuse, fits well in the 2012 Themester, which asks, “When is behavior good, or bad?”

Chaz Bono: “How I Became A Man”

The core of Chaz’s talk was on coming out as transgender, and undergoing the process of transitioning to make his sex assigned at birth (female) congruent with his gender identity (man).  Like his book, Transition: The Story of How I Became a Man, he shared personal details of his life, including drug addition, first coming out as a lesbian and then as a (heterosexual) transman, and his evolving relationships with his family.

From his earliest memories, he resisted the pressure from family and society to act feminine and to be feminine, though he journeyed a long road before he could define and embrace his identity as a man.  His visibility and increasing celebrity status has allowed many people in the US to put a face to an identity and experience they knew little about before.

A Sociologist’s Take

I enjoyed hearing about Chaz’s journey, and appreciate that his talk was a featured event at Indiana University.  The warm reception of Chaz Bono into the limelight demonstrates just far we have come in achieving visibility and equal rights for transgender people in the US.  Unfortunately, the hostility Chaz has faced, and the obsession with his transition, body, and relationships, also show just how much more work remains to eliminate transphobia.

It is important to remember, however, that there is great diversity among transgender people in terms of gender identity and gender expression, for some transpeople decide not (or are unable) to transition.  Many transpeople embrace a fluid or “queer” expression of gender that is neither masculine nor feminine, or may be some combination of both.  Also, transgender communities are diverse in terms of race, ethnicity, nationality, class, sexual identity, ability, and body size and shape.  Indeed, the experiences of transpeople of color and those who are working-class or poor may be somewhat different from those of Chaz.

But, I stress that there is so much to learn from Chaz Bono’s life and experiences, and his openness and visibility will continue to help to raise awareness about the lives of transpeople.  In addition to learning more about Chaz Bono, be sure to check out the open Kinsey Institute exhibit, “Gender Expressions,” before it ends on December 20th!

 





[kinsey] Plus-Size Girls Are More Likely To Have Sex Early And Unprotected

23 06 2010

This was originally posted at Kinsey Confidential.

Last month, Dr. Margaret S. Villers and other medical researchers at the Medical University of South Carolina presented their findings of a new study on the relationship between weight and sexual behavior among teen girls at the annual meeting of the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists.  They found that teen girls who are considered overweight or obese are more likely than thinner teen girls to start having sex at a young age, to have multiple sexual partners, and to have sex without using condoms or other forms of contraceptives.

More On The Study

Dr. Villers and her colleagues used data from the Youth Risk Behavior Survey conducted by the Centers for Disease Control – a survey that interviews middle and high school students across the United States about a wide range of topics.  Of the study’s sample of 21,773 teen girls, the researchers found three key differences between girls classified as “normal weight” and those classified as “overweight” or “obese”:

  1. Six percent of normal weight girls had sex before the age of 13, while 11% of overweight girls and 15% of obese girls had sex before the age of 13.
  2. Thirty-nine percent of normal weight girls reported having three or more sexual partners during their teen years compared to 45% of overweight girls and 47% of obese girls.
  3. Overweight and obese girls were almost 20-30% less likely than thinner girls to use condoms or other forms of contraception.

Possible Explanations

Given the link between weight and attractiveness – a societal standard of beauty that favors skinny bodies over fat bodies – some might find the study’s findings surprising: why are heavy girls having more sex with more partners?  Dr. Villers and her fellow researchers provide two possible explanations for the difference in sexual behavior among teen girls: development during puberty and self-esteem.  The researchers suggest that overweight and obese girls may begin puberty sooner and thus develop faster, which may put them at risk from more pressure from boyfriends and friends to have sex.

The researchers also suggested that, due to the relationship between obesity and deflated self-esteem, plus-size girls may be more likely to feel unattractive.  As a result, they may start having sex earlier to keep a partner, or they may not feel good enough about themselves to say “no” to sex or to enforce contraceptive use with a partner.  MSNBC, which reported about this study last month, noted the importance of healthy diets and exercise and, more importantly, of encouraging teen girls to feel good about themselves and their bodies.





[kinsey] Male Circumcision And HIV-Risk Reduction

2 10 2009

From Kinsey Confidential:  Are you “cut” or “uncut?”  Based on some research, it might have an impact on your risk for HIV and other sexually transmitted infections.  The results are mixed, but the bottom line is that it continues to be important to use condoms and to get tested regularly for sexually transmitted infections.

HIV-Risk Reduction in Circumcised Males

The Centers for Disease Control released findings from a series of studies early in 2008.  In the summary, they state “Male circumcision has been associated with a lower risk for HIV infection in international observational studies and in three randomized controlled clinical trials.”  However, they note that this is the case for male-to-female transmission of HIV, and less so for female-to-male transmission; thus, these studies did not focus on HIV-transmission in sex between men nor between women.  However, a more recent study has not found any effect of circumcision on HIV-transmission to men’s female partners for men who were already HIV-positive (i.e., infected with the HIV virus).

Who Does  This Apply To?

Not only are the findings about the role of circumcision in reducing the spread of HIV and AIDS mixed, they do not apply to everyone.  First, these studies have to do with the circumcision of males, whether that reduces HIV transmission for them and their female partners.  So, we know little about what strategies women could take to protect themselves from contracting HIV and other sexually transmitted infections.  Further, it is quite clear that these findings pertain to the transmission of diseases through heterosexual sex; that is, these findings do not apply to sex among lesbian, gay, and bisexual people.  In fact, it was announced that whatever effect circumcision has for preventing HIV transmission among heterosexual couples does not pertain to gay male couples.  Finally, these studies have been conducted on men in Uganda and other African countries.  We know much less about whether circumcision has any beneficial effects in the United States.

The Bottom Line

With such a high degree of inconsistency in these studies, it is not necessarily safe to rely solely on circumcision as the main approach to reduce the spread of HIV, AIDS, and other sexually transmitted infections.  Though it may turn out that circumcision does, in fact, reduce the spread of disease, and is not simply “associated with” the reduction of disease spread, I would strongly emphasize the necessity of using condoms, including female condoms.  To date, no other strategy is as effective in preventing the spread of disease during sex.  Also, it is necessary to get tested regularly for sexually transmitted infections and to know the sexual health status of your sexual partners.